Friday, 29 July 2011

I fall and fall but i also learn ........ :)


It's been a while because i've been busy you know learning things ...growing up ..feeling more matured and well yes profound ! A  few things i learnt recently :


People are going to leave no matter what 
Yes i was naive enough to think that some people will be with you forever ..but no things don't work that way ..people will leave and you have to accept it ..you might be close and they might mean the world to you but things will CHANGE ( i hate change )..but you have to get used to it and let people who chose not to leave see your amazing smile :D


After things get really really really BAD they can only get better 
When you go higher and higher and higher and the only way next is to go down ..( it works the other way to you go lower lower lower and BAM..rock bottom after that you can only rise up )
Once you've had your worst days feel so excited cause the happiest days are on its way :)
" The best way to get through hell is to keep going "


Others go through worse everyday
While you whine and get depressed over a broken relationship ..and friend issues and silly failures there are others in the world who go through worse each day...no your not a sadist to get pleasure out of someone else's miseries but yeah when you see the troubles of others it usually makes your problems seem really silly.
This reminds of a beautiful quote i read :
" Sometimes in life we feel so blue, but someone somewhere is not happy as you.somewhere far at the border when a soldier sleeps, missing his loved ones he silently weeps. somewhere a mother painfully sighs coz, her new born baby didnt open her eyes. somewhere a poor dad silently cries, when he sees his son begging for a bowl of rice. somewhere in an orphanage a little gal is sad, when she misses her mom nd dad. so at times a reason to smile you may not have any, say to yourself that you are happier than many. ''cause life is beautiful and its not always blue, and someone somewhere is not as happy as you......there is no way for happiness, HAPPINESS is the way. "


People will love you for exactly who you are so never try and be someone else 
As hard as it might be to believe at times ..there are people who love you for exactly who you are ...and they would not have you any other way :D
Don't give ANYBODY the power to put you down . The key of your happiness should be in your pocket and not in someone else's :)


Respect yourself Or no one else will either 
If you don't respect yourself and don't do what's right for you no one else is going to respect you either ...so take charge of your life and love yourself before you love someone else :) ..and know the difference between dignity and desperation O:) 


AND THROUGH IT ALL KEEP SMILING :D :) aaaah positivity FINALLY *dances* 


BTW ..watch this ad for cheddar cheese its awesomely cute :D 

Monday, 18 July 2011

ANYTHING THAT CAN GO WRONG, WILL GO WRONG - MURPHY'S LAW


You know when one has those days when just about everything goes wrong and you want to beat the daylights out of anyone you see :) Yeah i had mine today and it was awesome ( please sense the sarcasm )
  Starts with a normal morning i can't wake up so don't end up going to college ..instead sleep till noon and finally wake up when there is no electricity in the house ..and no it wasn't a power cut or load shedding or anything of that sort which one can't control ..it was just a random power cut that happened only in my house :|
  This was only the beginning and then my phone the great BLACKBERRY decides to piss me off more ..it stops working ..stops opening texts and sending ..stops reading the memory card or opening the contacts or even making calls for that matter :D 
   So to get away from the heat and in a quest to solve my own problems on my own i go to the repair centre after searching for the phone bill for half an hour and as soon as i pay 40 rupees and get down from the rickshaw    - my phone magically decides to get fixed :) cool isn't it .maybe it was feeling the heat to ..Feeling a little annoyed but happy that  my phone was atleast working i look for a rickshaw to take me home ..but life has its mysteriously annoying ways..so obviously no one wants to take me home ..and it starts to pour ..yes obviously i didnt bother to get the umbrella ( in my defense it wasn't raining when i left home ) So 20 mins later i finally find a auto and get home hoping to eat some lunch NOW ( btw its already 3.30 in the afternoon and i'm starvinggggggggggg )
 But no we are having a bad day remember ..my mom wants to see the movie i've already seen and the Awesome daughter that i am,  i go again to give her company and skip lunch and no i refuse to eat popcorn at the theater cause 
a ) its criminal to pay so much for popped corn :| and
 b) that's all i ate for a two days and i'm sick of it anyway the movie was awesome ( but no this doesn't count as a good thing cause i already saw it )
  Moving on the movie is over and we start walking back cause obviously there is no rickshaw :D ( i'm going to shoot all the rickshaw drivers one day O:) ) So we go to this mall for grocery shopping since we walked it anyway and its on the way home ..this is like a big store so they also have clothes ( well mostly tacky clothes )..but i like one thing just one thing in the shop but that's the only thing they don't have in my size :) 
PS : Meanwhile my phone has gone off again :D
Finally i get home obviously after another struggle for the auto .!
I might also add meanwhile my bestfriend or whatever thinks he needs space from me and doesn't like seeing me anymore :)
And my other friends are sucked in by the black hole :D Who says life's hard ! :D

Thursday, 14 July 2011

Because It's Important !

I'm having a little self - destructive moment right now so i think it's important that i list down the things that make me happy ... Eeep LISTS :D that'll be the first :P Here it is :


Things that make ME super duper HAPPY :D
  • Making lists makes me happy
  • Completing the lists makes me happy
  • The smell of new books makes me happy  
  • Babies and their innocence make me happy
  • Looking at my baby pictures makes me happy
  • A song with beautiful lyrics makes me happy
  • Lots of colors make me happy
  • Entering a good smelling shop and getting high on the smell makes me happy =)
  • Waking up and remembering a good dream makes me happy
  • When someone pays for me it makes me happy ( yeah i'm a girl ..get over it )
  • Singing in the worst voice ever makes me happy
  • Meeting someone for the first time and getting along with them makes me happy
  • Finishing a good book makes me happy
  • Watching a nice movie makes me happy
  • Cooking for myself makes me happy
  • Balooons make me happy
  • Walking into a toy store makes me happy
  • Having a long tiring day but it being totally worth it makes me happy 
  • Waking up early without an alarm clock makes me happy
  • Being the center of attention sometimes makes me happy
  • Getting a comment on my posts makes me happy :D ;)
  • Clicking nice pictures makes me happy
  • Shopping for BAGS make me happy :)
  • Shopping for anything actually makes me happy
  • Opening gift wraps makes me happy
  • Shiny things make me happy ( yeah i turned 3 last week :P )
  • When someone appreciates me it makes me happy
  • Reaching just in time and catching the 10.21 train like a ninja makes me happy :P 
  • Flowers make me happy
  • Seeing a new follower on my blog makes me happy :D
  • Ice cream drives make me happy
I feel great ..mission accomplished :D Adios ! goodnight :)



Yeah that's the kind of happy i'm talking about ^ :P